How To Start A Spontaneous Conversation With Someone
Unless your name is Brad Pitt or George Clooney, starting up a conversation with a woman we’ve never met before is something us mere mortals find hard to master.
We have not suddenly come up with a piece of magic or potion that will suddenly turn you into a Casanova giving you the ‘gift of the gab’ No – but we are here to tell you it’s not about coming up with crafty one liners that will send any man or woman weak at the knees.
So let’s make it real easy, a simple “hi there” and a friendly smile is all it takes to gauge how your comment has been accepted. No-one knows you better than yourself, so go with your gut feeling and back yourself if your instinct is sending you positive signals.
When all is said and done, you do need to actually approach this person in order to meet them right? Give yourself the very best chance and introduce yourself in a calm and confident manner, it’s important to maintain some eye contact too.
Comment on the environment and surroundings or perhaps make a point of asking them about how nice their appearance is. Because if there is one sure way to win a person affections, it’s by dishing out the compliments – no-one is going to tell you to get lost after complimenting them.
We’re sure we are not telling you any ground breaking news or uncovered ideas, but all of us as humans respond positively when someone brightens up our day, and it’s often the simple comments or gestures that can easily get the conversation going.
Make sure your approaches are done in a non threatening way. For example, don’t approach a pretty lady for conversation in a deserted underground shopping center car park – you could end up with a dose of capsicum spray.
If it is your intention to find romance or friendship by approaching strangers, there is certainly a time and place that is appropriate, and think about how your approach could be received, you don’t want to come across as a stalker!
Making a comment about something a person obviously places a lot of importance in is a great way to break the ice. Something they are emotionally attached to, for example a tattoo or a piece of jewelry.
Once you master this technique, life as you know it will change forever and doors will start to open for you like never before.
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